Sex Is An Important Spice for Your Marriage.

Hallo Readers,

If you could get in contact with God directly, what question would you ask Him regarding sex?

Well, before I continue here are some cautions for you:

If you are…
-under eighteen: Please don’t read.
-in courtship: Read and take notes
-married: This blog is for you, read and get into action.
-singles: Read at your own risk.

After you have learnt how to professionally live with a stranger as a wife and a
husband, I felt a great desire to blog about sex.

I wholeheartedly believe that sex was designed by God for married people, and this is where
two people become one. To some of us, talking and thinking about sex is taboo, yet I know how frustrated, disappointed and unsatisfied they are in their sexual life.

How healthy would you consider your marriage as far as sexual intimacy is concerned?
Be sincere with yourself when answering this question.

Listen, sex is not only all about making children. It is a gift from God for husband and wife
to enjoy. So, stop trying to prove God wrong by ignoring your sexual desires.

I am not a sex-expert but I believe sharing this with you might spare your marriage,  and change
your sexual intimacy. I took a while to realize how sex is an important spice for my marriage,
and that sex is a two-way traffic.

We women, have the tendency of making things like kids and housework more important than sex, thinking that sex is only for him. Come on, tell me that you do not enjoy it.  Your participation is here very much needed. It is giving and taking!

Do not just wait and expect your husband to be the one who always does the initiation. Seduce him and crave for it!

Send your kids to their grandparents or aunties over the weekends or holidays and enjoy some wild sex with your husband.

Pray for your marriage and your sex-life. We are told to surrender everything to God. God is the Creator and Founder of sex. Putting God first in everything you do, for this case sex, will make you have the most amazing intercourse you can ever think of. “Halleluyah”

Remain to be that lady he was dating before you married, at least a little bit, if not all. Remember how smart and well-dressed you went for the dates. Marriage is not there to make you look older than your age.

What happened to you after you married? You look 50 at the age of 30, you wear some funny stockings on your head for the night, you wait till he gets home late in the evening for you to go take a shower.  You hardly wash your hair-extensions or your weave-on due to worry it will loosen up or get damaged, before the time expected for it to expire on your head. Your husband want to lie close beside you, holding you tight in his arms. Do not chase him away with your bad odours. “oouuch”

The saying that say`s “you eat with your eyes first” must be familiar to you.  Practising a good impression etiquette will make him never lose his affection on you for somebody else.

Remember that the stupidity of a man is covered by a woman.  Built up your marriage by supporting each other. Ask God for wisdom and use the bible principles about marriage.

Your bedroom is not your courtroom where you bring all the quarrels, disappointments and the frustrations you gathered all day long. It’s your room for intimacy and love. So, please talk less!

Make a habit of pampering each other and loving each other unconditionally. Study each other well, that’s why you are married for God’s sake. Do those things that makes her/him feel good.  You were born creative, show your creativity in your bedroom. Monotonous is boring and can be deadly.

Husband, a wife is a fragile creation. Even though the bible say’s that our bodies no longer belong to ourselves but the body of the wife belongs to the husband, please come slowly. Stop jogging horizontally and up and down on her without care. Do it with tenderness and mind how she feels.

Speak and discuss with each other about your feelings. I know this might sound awkward, but an open communication allows your hearts to be bound tighter and together. Share about your intimate needs, your comforts and discomforts.

Have both of you ever tried saying a prayer before sex? If not, please try it. God is ready to listen and to meet your heart desires. “ask for more fire!!” 😉

Every marriage has it’s own challenges, but if your desire is to have a godly marriage, you and your spouse must be spiritually stable. Work on yourself getting better personally-spiritually and let God lead in your marriage!

Woman, be a prayer warrior for him!

I want to conclude by saying that sex is an important spice for your marriage and a vital supplement for both your mental and physical health!

You can’t live without sex and if you can, ask God to give you 100% Self-control!

Don’t leave without sharing your opinions or your experiences.

I love you,
yours Grace.