The Argument Syndrome
Hallo readers,
Let me tell you something that you probably didn’t know. Another relationship killer is the power of arguments. Why am I saying this? Simply because I was once a CEO of arguments especially with my hero. Who else here like arguing, or find themselves into endless and pointless quarrels in their relationships?
This message is for you today.
When a disagreement between me and my husband came up, (I am not sure if I was not the one who initiated it) I pressed on arguing for hours. I noticed how mean I was, and my focus was on me winning that specific issue. What hurts me most was when he gave up and said, “You are right, I have my peace.” Damn!!! it was not about his peace but about me winning!! So, this gave birth to a new argument.
Call it foolishness and I will 100% agree with you.
Some degree of the arguments can turn to be very unhealthy for your relationship. They take you to that point of doubting your relationship, and wondering if you were both at all meant to be.
Here is the secret. As much as God want to bless his people, as much as your enemy is working on his goals -steal-kill-and destroy.
Don’t let your enemy make you his victim. Find out the reasons why you argue and work on finding out some productive solutions. Most likely, an argument is a just a symptom of the real problem.
Remember, nothing will change if you don’t change yourself first. Be the change first, you want to see in your partner. And if there is something am proud about myself is that, I don’t argue anymore even with other people with a different relationship like friends, family or with my business partners etc.
I INSTEAD DO CREATIVE DISCUSSIONS.
I love you,
yours Grace
